Burying Opportunity

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For most of us, we know what we should do. But we are really good at coming up with reasons why we just shouldn’t do it right now. We know we should start a budget, clean the garage, join a gym, go to college, apply for that job, read that book or start that paper. We should do it, just not until later.

We are too busy, too tired, too poor, too uneducated, too alone, too confused or too something. It is just not the right time. And then we lie to ourselves and make up a story about some “perfect time” existing in the future when all the stars will line up perfectly and the term paper will just effortlessly flow from our fingers in some utopian, distraction-free bubble.

It’s been said that “procrastination is the grave in which opportunity is buried.” We tell ourselves, “I will do it later,” but “later” can often become a euphemism for “never” as we create the habit of pushing things off to some undefined future date.

You do not yet have next year, next month, next week or even tomorrow. But you do have today. Make it count.

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