I hope you have seen the classic cinematic masterpiece, “Napoleon
Dynamite.” If not, you need to turn off Game of Thrones reruns or Tiger King and
watch that movie. It’s how your shelter-in-place-downtime can be effectively
used. And if you have seen the movie, then you are familiar with the beloved
character, Uncle Rico.
Except, he is not beloved. He is creepy. And quite sad. And
although his character creates some hilarious moments in the movie, you wouldn’t
want to hang around people like that. You wouldn’t want him babysitting your
children or even your llama. You probably wouldn’t even want to buy Tupperware from
him.
Uncle Rico is still trapped in high school. The past has
such a hold on him that he is unable to move forward into the future. He is
still haunted by a potentially glorious moment that slipped through his fingers
as a teenager. As he sees it, his impact and influence peaked in high school. Content
replaying the exploits of his past, Uncle Rico’s mind is imprisoned by his own
Glory Days.
While Uncle Rico’s character may be an exaggerated example,
we can all fall prey to this kind of thinking. Assuming we have “peaked” in some
fashion or another long ago, we resign ourselves remembering the good ol’ days of
the past instead of building our future. And because we don’t allow ourselves to
be stretched and challenged in those areas of our life, regression becomes a
self-fulfilling prophecy.
What a sad way to live, believing your best is already
behind you! No matter what you have or haven’t accomplished in life, there is
always room to grow. Always new challenges to stretch you. And more
importantly, there will always be people who depend on you to improve. Believe
your best is yet to come, and then live in such a way that ensures it.
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